
This morning I overheard my mom discussing the subject of homeschooling with someone and it got me thinking. I decided I'd write my thoughts in an "essay" to share. This is NOT to be judgmental of anyone - simply to share how I feel and what I know, myself being homeschooled K-12.
Yes, homeschooling is a HUGE decision and definitely, at times, can be a lot of work - BUT is it worth it? By far, in my opinion!
My parents decided to homeschool us kids (me being the oldest) and it has definitely been the best decision for our family. Through the years, God has always provided the money, the curriculum, the supplies, the help, the perseverance and the grace. He was always there whenever a need came up or a problem had to be faced - and yes, of course, I prayed in school for some of those "problems" that happened to be in my math - or the biology experiment that I had to little idea of how to do.
In my opinion, homeschooling is the best educational option out there! There are many who would like to put arguments against it - yet why is it that the general comparison between homeschoolers and those that attend public school shows that the homeschoolers are doing better all the way around - not just "educationally", but yes, emotionally, mentally, physically, socially . . . . Not that I am lifting homeschoolers up as though we were better - far from it!!! However, studies have proved these afore-said ideas to be true.
One of the biggest "arguments" that I hear is that kids need to go to public school to learn how to socialize. Well, let me now ask YOU a question! Since WHEN did "learning how to socialize" become the reason we go to school? I never knew public schools were started so that young people might learn proper "social skills"! (That's new information to me!) I always thought we go to school to LEARN! In my thinking, if I have to go somewhere to learn my social skills, I think I'll go somewhere else besides public school! Public school is probably the last place I'd want to learn them if I had to choose!
There are perhaps pro's and con's to both public school and homeschool. Granted, there are perhaps many people that homeschooling is just not for, or who just can't for various reasons. However, I, myself being a homeschool GRADUATE, can say that given the choice to do it over again, I'd way go for homeschooling once again and I that I think there are many good reasons to homeschool. Number one, you get a deeper, more personalized method of education. Number two, you have a wider set of resources. In fact, the resources open to you via homeschool are practically boundless. Number three, you can work more at your own pace and actually learn a little more. Number four, you don't have to have the concern about your peers affecting your concentration, neither do you have to worry about the influence that you would be faced with every day, all day. You are better able to focus, learn and cultivate the person YOU are as opposed to the person that your peers want you to be. Number five, you have more time and flexibility. You can spend more quality time with your family. You have more free time to develop and enjoy your personal hobbies and interests. Your life isn't so tied down by school.
I could continue on. One of the most important things to me is the freedom to honor God openly and to pray to Him. Who says I can't do a research paper on how amazing God's creation is as opposed to how the world "evolved"? Who says I can't say the Pledge of Allegiance including the phrase "One nation under God"? Who says I can't openly bow my head and ask God to help me understand it all? Who says Bible learning and scripture memorization can't be included in my studies? Why, again, was school started? To LEARN or to "SOCIALIZE"?
As you can tell, for me personally, homeschool was the best option. I love the freedom of it! For those of you who have the option - pray first and then take my advice - DO IT! . . . And let me know if you have any regrets!
*Special thanks to my parents for homeschooling me and giving me such a wonderful, educational foundation - and for raising me to personally know Christ!*
As a note - this post is NOT intended to be judgmental OR make someone look bad or feel bad! It is not intended to be of conflict! Only to state my thoughts and beliefs. Hope you enjoyed it! :D